Having attended two of Shirlie Roden’s wonderfully healing sound workshops and had a one-to-one sound healing session with her last year, Barbara Cheney met with Shirlie to find out about this gifted and inspiring lady.
Please describe what you do.
I’m a singer and songwriter: I write songs, music and
lyrics and I perform on the stage. I also lead sound
healing workshops, getting people to use their voices to
release feelings, for relaxation and in meditation. And I’m
a sound healer, which means I work with people one-to-one
either getting them to use their voices to release energy,
or I use my voice to sound over their body while they’re
lying there, putting them into a state of deep relaxation
and vibrating the whole body with sound.
When did you start singing, and how did you arrive at
writing and singing the songs that you now sing?
I was brought up in Wales from the age of three – my mother
is Welsh. Being the Land of Song, once they find out that
you can sing you’re always encouraged to sing and to enter
competitions. As I was growing up both my brothers were
into rock and roll so the house was full of that. They both
had rock bands and I used to go along and try and sing with
them when they’d let me – very occasionally. I had singing
lessons with a member of the Welsh National Opera but that
only lasted for a year because I soon realised that I
didn’t want to sing classical music – I was far more
interested in the contemporary music of the time.
I started out with the guitar, doing Joan Baez imitations
and singing folk music because that was the simplest thing
to do. When I went to university I formed a rock band with
some other students and afterwards we got a recording
contract and turned professional. I just carried on from
then really. The band was called Children – and we behaved
like children! We were never famous but later on I worked
with well-known groups – I performed for three years with
Ray Davies and the Kinks during their concept musical
period and we toured America. After that, I was in the
Gordon Giltrap Band for a while
So I was in rock music for most of my life, and when the
punks came in I didn’t really like the way music had gone
so I moved over to theatre and wrote and performed musical
theatre. I went through a Dark Night of the Soul in 1986
and came out the other side deciding that if I was going to
sing and play music then I’d use my gifts to help in some
way. To write songs that had some inner meaning and
inspiration; and to just sing for the joy of singing
wherever I was asked to go. I was invited to go to the
Republic of Slovenia in 1992 and I’ve been singing there
ever since.
You’re
well known in Slovenia now aren’t you?
Yes. TV Slovenia is going to do a documentary on me and my
work. I’ve just had a book published there that I
co-created with a Slovenian photographer. It’s called
Simply Slovenia and is to promote Slovenia to the
English-speaking world with my songs on CD and my text with
his photos. The book launch in Ljubljana [in February 2008]
was lovely. We invited all the different embassies and
ambassadors, and I’ve been working with a Slovenian record
producer, Tomaz Kozlevcar who’s very well known in
Slovenia, so I performed three of the songs and we
presented the book. It was a wonderful evening with
fabulous Slovene wine!
When did you first become aware of the power of sound for
healing?
When I was in the Gordon Giltrap Band I really began to
understand the power of sound – Gordon didn’t want me to
sing lyrics, he wanted me to use my voice as an instrument.
I kept hitting these very high notes and the vibration made
me feel really good. I think that was my first awareness of
the power of those high tones.
And before that, while in the university band we all became
initiated in Transcendental Meditation (to stop us
arguing!). That was in 1971, the Maharishi’s first outreach
into England with English-trained teachers. So I’d been
meditating for many years and after I’d been through my
Dark Night of the Soul the two things came together and I
began to make sound during meditation and realised that it
can really affect the body and help to clear out old
feelings and old memories. I intuitively knew that memory
was held in the cellular structure of the body, but it
wasn’t until I read Deepak Chopra’s books some years later
that I learned it had been scientifically proven that there
is a membrane surrounding each cell which holds memory.
So it all came very naturally…
Well yes, naturally, but not in an easy way, as often
happens, when you have to make those transitions. When I
went through my Dark Night of the Soul everything seemed to
fall apart in my life and I even contemplated killing
myself. Out of that darkness a light began to shine. That
was quite a difficult phase to go through but was a
transition between one state of being to another. Since
then, I have my ups and downs like everyone else but I’m
much more able to accept things philosophically. I see
everything that we create as life challenges that help us
grow towards love – real love, that is, not the romantic
love as sold to us in the Hollywood movies.
How
did you start doing your sound workshops?
Having worked with sound on myself and discovered that
emotions and patterning, feelings and old memories, can be
released through making sound, I was very reluctant at
first to do it on anyone else. But then friends found out
what I was doing and asked me to work on them – mainly in
Slovenia – and so I agreed to do it, because in a sense, I
was just experimenting. But then they asked me to lead a
workshop teaching them how to work with sound – and I said
I haven’t trained with anyone, I’m just following my
intuition! In the end, I did the workshop and people loved
it, and then there were more workshops and more sound
healings. And then they kept asking me to write a book. ‘Oh
no,’ I thought, ‘people will finally know I’m mad! … all
these sounds of “ooh” and “ah” that I’m vibrating bodies
with…’ But I wrote the book, called Sound Healing, and it
was published by Piatkus in the UK. And it’s a continuing
journey. I’ve learned so much more since then and I plan to
write a book called Raising Your Vibration but it’s a
question of finding the time.
People are often surprised that my workshops are not solely
for musicians but for anybody, even those who haven’t used
their voice for years, and that it’s not a singing workshop
(which can be competitive) but a sound workshop. It’s about
making sound, whatever the sound is – I don’t judge and I
ask people not to judge. To make their own sound will
really bring them something special. It’s amazing: by the
end of a day’s workshop people will look different and the
sound they’re making will be different. And with the sound
healing sessions it’s the same thing. The workshops help
people to connect with their voice. Sometimes people cry –
perhaps because they haven’t sung since childhood, but it’s
so great that they’re doing it now; it’s so healthy to
express with sound.
Tell me about your one-to-one sound healing sessions.
The sound healing sessions are quite an amazement for me.
Eventually I developed a system of how to work on the whole
body with sound. The things that have happened with people
have been incredible. People can suddenly go into a memory
of abuse in childhood which they’ve blocked for years. The
first time that happened I was pretty scared because it was
a Slovene woman who didn’t speak English and I didn’t know
what she was saying, and she was totally agitated and
releasing so much emotion from her body. But my intuition
told me that it was sexual abuse, so I carried on with the
session and she calmed down and she was absolutely fine. At
the end she said in translation that she’d clicked back
into a memory of being in a cot as a small child and her
grandfather coming in and lifting up the sheets and abusing
her. And it made sense because she dressed in a very
masculine way and she said that all her life she’d never
dared to express being a woman because it felt dangerous.
After the session, she changed completely and bought
herself new underwear and massage oil – her husband must
have wondered what on earth had happened! – because she
released the fear of attracting men to her for the wrong
reason. After that experience, I became used to people
going into what we call rebirthing when people release
deep, deep emotion – and I get them to make sound to help
them release, and rock the body and things like that.
Sometimes a healing is very gentle and people simply relax
and drift away – some people just need the relaxation and
others need to let go of something. But it never ceases to
amaze me because it’s so simple: sound is so simple to work
with.
How
do you feel when you’re performing and giving sound
healings?
People say there’s a healing sound to my voice, so even
when I do concerts, people experience healing, wherever the
concert is, it seems. In Slovenia, venues for concerts
range from theatres with an audience of 400–500 to a forest
by a lake for 50 people. When I sing, this huge energy just
pours through me: I have been known to do concerts for two
hours – just me singing and talking! – I think the pure joy
that comes through me is because of the songs I’m singing,
which are expressing spirit – is a huge rush of energy and
sometimes it feels like it’s going to lift me off the
stage. That’s real joy.
It’s not the same thing when I’m doing a sound healing but
certainly I feel the energy coming through me, and very
often I feel as though I’m an instrument being sung. It’s
like spirit or life force energy, or consciousness, or
whatever you want to call it, comes through me when I open
my mouth and it’s effortless. Because I’m toning for a long
time when I’m sound healing – it can be for 45 minutes –
people are sometimes concerned that I’ll get tired. But at
the end of a session I usually have more energy than when I
began and feel clearer and stronger because the sound works
through me; it clears me as it goes into the person. It’s a
great therapy to do but I can only do two sessions a day,
not because my voice gets tired but because the muscles in
my chest get tired through continuous breathing. In Poland
I do sound healings day after day, and it can be quite
challenging to keep going. At the moment people there are
still releasing a lot of emotion – it’s still coming out –
connected with everything that happened to the Polish
during the two World Wars. It’s quite challenging, but
wonderful to do and be able to help people.
Where
do you think you’re going to go from here?
I’ve no idea! I put a prayer out to spirit many years ago
after my Dark Night of the Soul and said I will go
wheresoever you ask me to go, I will be with whosoever you
ask me to be with, I will do whatsoever you ask me to do,
in service. Show me the way! So I wait to be asked, really.
Wherever spirit needs me I will follow. I just trust in
spirit that it’ll be OK, and it always has been.
When
you say you trust, do you feel protected?
Well not in the sense that I think there’s an angel
standing over me. But I have an expectation that things are
going to be all right; I don’t have an expectation that I’m
going to be mugged or end up in the bottom of a river face
down. I have an expectation that I’m going to be looked
after and everything will be fine. It’s a bit like The
Secret DVD, the law of attraction: what you’re expecting
and vibrating with – what you’re putting out – is how it
will be. I have this very strange thing that wherever I am
in Europe, whatever town I happen to be in, people come up
to me and ask me the way. So I must have the energy of
being a local or being at home wherever I am!
Find
out more about Shirlie Roden at www.shirlieroden.com
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